Points to ponder
"There was this guy who has a girl as his very close friend. Eventually, during the process, he fell in love with that girl. He kept on showing her love, but only showed. But then, the girl didn't really notice it. Then it came to a point where he needs to tell her directly how he feels. Finally he confessed to the girl. However, the girl replied, 'What do you expect me to feel, you betrayed our friendship.' Maybe she thought that this guy only befriended her because of those feeling?"
Hmm... so is it okay to fall for a close friend? Or is it better to fall for and court someone before befriending them so that there will be no risk of breaking a friendship?
PS: This topic also came up during one of my recent conversations.
Posted on 3/13/2006 12:59:00 AM
2 Comments:
go see http://www.laddertheory.com :)
i feel it depends on the individual one ba....... some ppl they believe in "must see liao feel right, cannot start as friends".... but there are also some who feels "must know better before knowing if he/she's the one anot...."
your story that guy is quite unlucky ba i gotta say...... but i dun think everyone thinks in this way ba............
stupid-genius: wah your ladder theory i dun really think its true leh...... but duno how to refute it =PP
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